Is this for real..?

When things come too easy, do they have to get complicated for us to believe that it’s for real. Be it a person, or a thing, if we get it without going through any hardships, we don’t value it. We are raised to believe that the path of love is never smooth, it is full of obstacles. And if it’s not, does that mean something is missing? State the reason, why we find ourselves more attracted to the people who play hard to get and overlook the one who actually put in a lot of efforts to make it happen with us.